RIPE FRUIT by Alexandra Roxo
Holy F*CK
Discovering your Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney

Discovering your Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney

On today’s episode, Alexandra speaks with author, sex educator, writer, and podcaster Ev’yan Whitney!

Ev’Yan Whitney is a Sexuality doula®, sex educator, and sensualist.  Since 2011, Ev'Yan has been dedicated to sex education and sexual activism for women and non-binary folks, helping individuals reclaim their unique sexual expressions and reconnect to their sensual bodies.  Ev'Yan's work focuses on decolonizing, unshaming, and liberating sexuality at the intersection of identity, pleasure, and embodiment.  Ev'Yan is the author of Sensual Self, a self-guided journal that will help you come home to yourself through your senses.  They also host a podcast of the same name.  

In this episode, you’ll hear:

  • Ev’yan’s experience of growing up in purity culture, and using discernment around moving away from purity culture by continually asking if this still make sense for them.

  • Ideas on honoring yourself, your sexuality, and your energy even while in a relationship and marriage, and how Ev’yan and their partner have navigated this over the course of their partnership.

  • Removing the stigma around being asexual and ideas on how to discern if you are asexual, or if being asexual is a part of your sexual identity.

  • How to discern between having a true sexual desire vs. feeling like it’s something you ‘should’ do, and how that really applies to every aspect of our life.

  • Ideas on having different phases of sexuality and sexual drive, as cyclical human beings who are always changing and transforming, and how honoring this can help us stay in integrity with ourselves and remove judgment and feelings of shame if we feel like we ‘should’ be hitting a certain sexual number per week, month, etc.

  • And more!

Order your copy of Ev’yans book, Sensual Self here and listen to the podcast Sensual Self here.  For more about her work go to and follow her on Instagram @evyan.whitney.

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RIPE FRUIT by Alexandra Roxo
Holy F*CK
Welcome to DARE TO FEEL, the podcast that fearlessly explores themes of intimacy, relationships, spirituality, and healing. Hosted by Alexandra Roxo, a creative artist, bestselling author of F*ck Like a Goddess, transformational and spiritual mentor and coach, and a passionate seeker of wisdom. We're here to provide you with a no-nonsense, unfiltered, and authentic perspective. DARE TO FEEL is a transformative evolution from Alexandra's previous podcast, Holy F*ck. This exciting new season aligns with the release of her upcoming book, set to launch with Sounds True in January 2024. Please subscribe, review, and share with fellow passionate curious humans who also have the itch to uncover more truths in this world, and who dare to feel all the feels. For more, follow along with Alexandra: 🌹 Website: 🌹 Private Coaching: 🌹Grab her online courses and tools for healing and transformation: 🌹 IG: @alexandraroxo